Parents don’t make mistakes!

Parents don’t make mistakes!

One of the most common questions that parents ask me is: What if I make mistakes? My reply: Parents don’t make mistakes, because there isn’t a right or wrong way to parent.     Who decides what’s a mistake?  What is often considered a...
Freedom at its finest

Freedom at its finest

With all due respect to cheesecake recipes, I’d like to dwell on another aspect of the upcoming Shavuot holiday, ‘Matan Torah’.   The people of Israel were liberated from slavery in Egypt. 49 days later they received the Torah.  To the onlooker it would...
Everyone can belong

Everyone can belong

The month of May has been designated as the month of connecting Israel with Jewish communities abroad. Essentially it’s not about  creating a new connection, rather geared to strengthen a bond that already exists between the Jewish people living in Israel and...
Dispelling the confusion

Dispelling the confusion

End of the school year is coming up. Yay!   Many parents are breathing a sigh of relief. They’ll finally have a break from homework, reports, tests, and projects.  Confused?  Isn’t it the child who should be breathing a sigh of relief and looking...
Thanking instead of blaming

Thanking instead of blaming

Parenting keeps us busy.  Very busy.  Sometimes we are so busy that we forget that we too are children of parents.  Once in a while we need a reminder.   A distressed mom recently consulted with me. Her problem in a nutshell: Her home and...
Of flag and family

Of flag and family

A few years ago I was visiting with my mother A”H in Jerusalem around a week after Pesach.  We were sitting on the porch and she began rummaging through a closet nearby.  I asked, “What are you looking for”? Her reply, “The flag, it’s Iyar, we have to hang...